Bismillah.. Dengan Nama Allah.

Assalamua'laikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

What's up?

Alhamdulillah, we are now in 2015!

Luqman Hakim pun dah besar( 2 tahun 5 bulan), Auntie(saya)pun dah tak larat nak dukung Luqman lama-lama. "Nak antii..", Luqman amboi demand. Cuti ni belajar mandikan Luqman, basuh 'yak' dia, siapkan dia, suapkan dia(eh, suap pun kena ada teknik tau supaya dia nak makan), etc. 

I just finished my fourth semester out of six semester. Alhamdulillah. The fourth semester was quite a long struggle for me, but many sweet things were there also :) .

Ok cerita satu-satu dulu ya.. 

Roomate

She was one lovely roomate I tell you! I hope she is still my roomate for the next semester. amiin. Well, I hope she don't mind to share the same room with me again ehehe. Our room was  clean, tidy and fragrant most of the time(selalunya tempat saya yg byk sepah.huhu, sorry roomate). Dia letak pewangi dalam bilik :)

"Nanti awak nak apa-apa ambillah ya.", she said. That was really a good ice-breaking process. It's not like she already knew me-boleh senang-senang offer orang gitu. Saya iyakan sahaja nak mengangguk. senyummm.

Dia kira senior saya juga. Ainun punya program Bahasa Melayu Komunikasi Profesional semester 5, saya pula Bahasa Inggeris Komunikasi Profesional semester 4. Umur kami juga sama and we share two same courses. Jadi kadang-kadang adalah tanya itu-ini kat dia pasal pelajaran.

She love outdoor activities/sports and so am I. Actually I was starting to like outdoors activities as I want to try something new in this life. Dulu time sekolah menengah, saya seboleh-bolehnya elak daripada aktiviti sukan. Masuk lumba lari(pemilihan je pun), dah lari sekuat hati pun ramai orang potong.  -__-"

Semester lepas ni, saya kalau boleh nak masuk semua-hiking, kayak, lari, volunteer, etc. Selalu kalau ada apa-apa aktiviti sukan macamtu, saya ajak dia. Ada yang dia ikut dan ada waktu yang dia tak dapat ikut sebab nak siapkan kerja dan ulangkaji.

Ainun selalu juga bercerita kat saya. Selalu buat saya ceria. Alhamdulillah.

haa, banyak sangat kalau nak cerita budi dia kat saya. So, all in all she's nice, she's pretty and smart too. =)

Program Sana Sini

Time is running out as I only have two semesters left(tolak satu semester-praktikal) at the university. So, I decided to grab any opportunities to social around and pick up any soft skills that I could. Presiden kelab tanya boleh pergi atau tidak kursus pengurusan organisasi, I said yes. Dia tanya siapa boleh pergi jaga booth, saya volunteer.

I joined kayak course, kayak competition-walaupun tak sampai seminggu lepas kursus kayak tu and without any trainings, jadi sukarelawan untuk 3 hari 2 malam di Putrajaya, masuk 2 acara untuk Sukan Antara Fakulti(SAF) yang diadakan setahun sekali. Salah satunya adalah acara larian.

Along the activities that I joined along the fourth semester, I get to know a lot of people from different programmes and faculties. And most of them thought that I'm a freshie. Mungkin sebab saya pendiam kot.

Disebabkan banyak sangat aktiviti luar, tu tak termasuk aktiviti kolej dan program dalam uitm(saf tu dlm uitm gak), maka tak selalulah balik rumah. Dulu semester 1 tiap-tiap minggu balik rumah kalau tak ada apa-apa sabtu dan ahad tu(biasanya memang free je sabtu ahad). Sem lepas paling lama tak balik rumah pun, 2 minggu.

Tapi sem 4 selalu skip balik rumah, paling lama tak balik 3 minggu rasanya(haha, tak sampai sebulan pon). huhu, takpe. Berkorban.

Assignments

Last sem's assignments are quite tough for me, but I was more relaxed in handling the stress. More relaxed je, bukan bermakna relax bebenor, because there are times when I still have to bebel-bebel my problems to someone.

Friends

. . . . . . hmmmm. dah lupa. Kalau ingatpun malas nak susun cerita elok-elok. Some were pleasing and some were not so pleasing.

Eh! haaa, ada sorang kawan ni. Dia senior saya, program sama. Saya sem 4 dan dia sem 5. Dia sekelas dengan saya dalam satu course tu. MasyaAllah..baik sangat dengan saya! First time duduk sebelah dia, dia bagi gula-gula :) , pastu offer hantar saya balik naik kereta dengan dia, pastu offer tumpang lagi untuk pergi kelas dengan dia.

Macam-macam! and dia bagi buku-buku dia free je kat saya. Alhamdulillah. Semoga dia menjadi orang yang berjaya di dunia dan akhirat. Amiin. 

Dan ada lagi sorang senior ni, pun alhamdulillah baik. :) hihiii. Eh ada lagi sorang senior tu pun baik jugak. hehe. Baguihlah depa. Allah sahaja yang dapat balas segala jasa awak-awak semua kat saya.

Baiklah! Setakat ini sahaja  pos saya pada kali ini. InsyaAllah nanti kalau ada mood dan rajin, boleh update lagii..

Daa.. Smile even when you don't feel like it cause who knows with your smile, people would feel better from their sorrows.

Peace out! =)

Ihik..Ihik. :p Eyes qreem.

Assalamua'laikum.

Alhamdulillah.
Subhanallah wa alhamdulillah wa la ilaha illallahu wa allahu akbar! :)

The other day, I tak ingat bila. Oopss 'I'. Mengadee sangat! :p Saya tak ingat hari apa pula, tapi baru-baru ini saya ada baca homemade ice cream's recipe. I got all the ingredients, mix it, blend it and put it in the frozen section in the refrigerator to freeze overnight. :)

Alhamdulillah, menjadi. I made two flavors which are chocolate and milk. Sorry, no pictures this far, because I usually use my handphone's camera to snap all the moments, but right now my HP cannot be turned on.

Saya kongsi resepi dengan awak-awak semua ye.. :)

*1 tin susu cair (1 can of evaporated milk)-400ml

*1 tin susu pekat manis (1 can of sweetened milk)-400ml

-->I did not use exactly 400ml of it because...I don't want it to be too sweet. I just used about 3/4 of the can and alhamdulillah it tasted just nice. :)

*4sb ovalette(4tablespoons of ovalette)
-->I did not use the exact measurement for the ovalette. I only mixed just about 2 tablepoons or so. I did search in the Internet for the function of ovalette. It says that it's to make cake to be more fluffy, cause it helps to trap the air quicker. Ovalette is commonly use to make sponge cake, and... I am not sure why this recipe needs it, but..hehe, I was just following the recipe. :)

*2 cawan air suam (2 cups of lukewarm water)-sorry i don't know the accurate measurement.

Serbuk koko (Cocoa powder)-I didn't measure this portion also. But as far as I remember, it was like 2 tablespoons more or less. If you want to make sure the taste will be alright, just mix the cocoa powder little by little and taste it(the mixture).

Susu tepung (Milk powder)- Hehe, guess what? I also did not measure this ingredient.

-->The cocoa and the milk powder are the flavors option. You can make it with your favourite flavor and make it colorful with a few different food coloring.

Step 1 : Mix all (*) ingredients and I just blend it in a blender for a few minutes.

Step 2 : Separate the mixture into 2 or 3 parts according to how many flavors that you want to make in different containers.

Step 3 : Just mix each of the mixture with your choosen flavor.

Step 4 : Keep the mixtures in the fridge in the frozen section for a night.


Happy tying! :)

Dari apa yang saya dah buat, kekurangan resipi ini ialah aiskrim tu, tak tahan lamalah di luar peti sejuk. Ia cepat cair. Lagi satu, kalau tak guna strong flavor macam serbuk koko tu, rasa susu pekat manis itu akan rasa kuat sikitlah.

Saya punya aiskrim yg berperisa coklat tu, tak rasa sangat susu pekat manis, tapi yg berperisa susu tu, dapat rasalah susu pekat manis. JAdinya kalau nak jual flavor tu kat org, org dah dapat teka bahan yg kita guna. Hehe.

The disadvantage of this recipe:
Easy to melt outside the fridge and people can know that you use sweetened milk for the ice cream when you are using not so strong flavor such as milk powder. But chocolate flavor is okay because the taste of the sweetened milk will not be that strong.

We Didn't Portray Enough.

Assalamua'laikum.

Ahlan! :D

So..., how are you today? Good? Alhamdulillahh.
How about your imaan? :)

Just recently, I watched a story of a man that had converted into Islam. ALHAMDULILLAH! :)) He said he was sad for many of the muslims people that he had met after he converted. He has tatoos all over his body. He feel sad because while he has tatoos on his body, the other muslims have tatoos on their hearts.

Ouch!

I think we have not portray enough of the kindness and peacefulness in this religion has to offer. Many of us still ignores the sunnah, while it was clearly said in the Quran that Prophet Muhammad S.A.W. is the best icon to be followed.

A lot of people out there that are not-yet-muslim, are misunderstanding Islam. Why? Because we are not yet practicing Islam 100% in our life. I'm saying this to myself and to other brothers and sisters of Islam, please don't be a fitnah to Islam. For example in socializing. Males and females(that are not mahram) have boundaries between them such as can't sit too close and etc. When we have to work in group that is mixed with both male and female friends, we can sit with the opposite gender in a group, but of course we should still alert the distance and manner with them. Don't ban the opposite gender 100% such as not talking to them and having a paranoid towards them.

Here is the link to the video that I just mentioned up there.
Millionaire Gives It All Up f or Islam

I'm sorry for the shortcomings in this entry. May peace be upon you. :))

Insecurity

Assalamua'laikum. Hallo..! Kaif haluk?

Now..

Many people suffer a feeling of insecurity in them. Insecure simply means self-doubt which makes a person to feel not enough or not measure-up for certain people around them. Emotional insecurity is really disturbing since it affects your whole world! At school, work place, functions, etc. Constantly having fear of making mistake or being judged can get the person into confidence level problem, thus restraint them to have a normal social life. For example, when you go to school reunion after the SPM. At that current time you still haven't got any offer from any university while most of your friend there are already in their semester 2. You will feel a little low-self-worth and probably you just keep yourself 'invisible' or go home earlier than everyone else. Emotional insecurity or can also be identified as inferiority complex should be intervene immediately to prevent more serious mental problems such as depression.

According to Tammy Fletcher, a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, the core emotion under insecurity is fear. A person competency level is also one of the factors that ctributes to self-doubt. There are a few initial steps that can be applied in dealing with this problem.


The first step is to admit or acknowledge the fear that you are having. Instead of saying that you are just nervous or anxious, admit that you are in a fear. Then, ask yourself in which way does that fear benefits you? Does it serve you any good? Are making yourself invinsible will help you to have more friends, knowledge? Well we all know that the answers are a definite no. Or perhaps if there is any benefit, do inform me.

Everything that you think negatively in that mind for no reason are  just thoughts. They are not facts! So give yourself the chances that you deserve. Challenge yourself to do something that you think you can never do it. Don't worry because the steps that you are going to take can be
 little steps.

Embrace the uniqueness in you. :)) For example, like me!(hehe). I have bigger hands than the other girls'. Instead of feeling upset because I have big hands, I'm feeling grateful and proud for it. Moreover Allah is The All Knowing that designed me. :)  Want to know what benefit do I get with this beautiful hand? I can grab more things than other people. My hands are also warm to be hold. hehe.

Just stop worrying about small things. Start loving and appreciating yourself for who you are. In the same time, make efforts to increase your self-value such as in the knowledge, skills. And most importantly make efforts to be closer to The Creator. When you have a good relation with Allah, insyaAllah your relation with family, friends, spouse, colleagues, etc will be good as well.

Thank you for reading! Love you! :)

*Pray. Ask Allah for anything and believe that Allah will respond because He is always there for us. He knows what are we going through. The Lord surely will give you the best at the right time.

Assalamua'laikum brothers and sisters. :)

Purdah ke Niqab?

Assalamua'laikum.

:) Alhamdulillah, ada juga entri baharu ni.

 How are you people? Fine? :) Don't get used to be fined or you'll be broke in no time.. hahaha. :) Sorry if it's a lame joke. But you know, there is this one dear friend where dia still will be laughing even though my joke is lame or unfunny. hehe. Gelakkan sayalah tu? Tak apalah,, asalkan gelak, tak adalah I malu sangat buat lawak tak jadi. :))

Refering to this post---- I just want to say..."Purdah ke tak purdah, yang penting solehah!", or the translation in English would be," With or without the Niqab, the priority is to be righteous as Allah's servant!" Tu dia aihh, awat tang Bahasa Inggeris tu panjang ngat...

If you have covered your aurat(the body part that should be covered according to the syariat) perfectly, there's no NEED to wear the purdah/niqab. Did you see that I capitalized the word "need"? So, if only you have the NEED to wear that small and cute veil, please execute it right away. If you don't have any strong reason to wear niqab, you don't have to force yourself to wear it. Unless you, sisters, it is your wish to wear it anyhow.



This is just my opinions. Anybody can give me their own thoughts about this matter here.

May Allah bless us all. Take care. :)

Your Wife-To-Be

Assalamua'laikum.

Regarding to the previous post(the post that my Bahasa Melayu went terribly), please do not choose me because of my looks. I am no beauty queen.

I always ask Allah to make me a righteous daughter and wife.

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To the Muslimah out there.., we are sisters. Bond by this religion(Islam) we carry each others name, honour and dignity. The brothers(Muslim) too. Brothers, please protect us , the sisters. You are protecting us by simply giving us the righful respect. :)

:) :) :)

May Allah S.W.T. bless us all!

Take care.. :)

ALert! Bahasa Melayu di dalam pos ini adalah amat teruk. Dah dia tak nak tulis, kitalah tulis.

Assalamua'laikum guyss..

Sebagaimana yang kita ketahui tentang sepotong hadith popular mengenai panduan memilih pasangan, pilihlah wanita itu bedasarkan wajahnya, hartanya, keturunannya dan akhir sekali, tidak akan pernah rugi bagi yang memilih seseorang wanita itu kerana agamanya.

Sebenarnya ia sangat normal jika lelaki atau perempuan hendak memilih pasangan hidup berdasarkan rupa atau selainnya kerana itu pilihan masing-masing. Namun, perasaan yang lebih istimewa itu hadirnya di dalam fasa pasca pernikahan. Mungkin perasaan sebelum kahwin itu akan menjadi berbeza daripada perasaan selepas berkahwin bagi sesuatu pasangan, wallahu aa'lam. Ini kerana sebelum perkahwinan, pemilihan pasangan adalah disebabkan perkara yang biasa seperti pandangan luaran atau rupa, dan tentunya ianya norma di dalam masyarakat. Apabila bertudung merah, dia gadis berkerudung merah, hatiku tergoda tergugah..,oh maafkan saya, saya tetiba pula mendendangkan lagu Kekasih Halal by Wali Band.

Jadi, apabila akad nikah telah selesai dan sah semuanya, barulah cinta yang sebenar itu akan muncul. Melayari bahtera perkahwinan bersama-sama tentunya akan ada ombak dan badai yang melanda selain hanya manis dan bahagia di sepanjang pelayaran. Di situ, akan ada yang tidak sabar dan menjadi marah atau sabar dan bertolak-ansur. Bunga-bungaa cinta indah berseri di antaraaa...oh, maaf. Saya tiba-tiba pergi menyanyi lagu bunga2 cinta by Asmirandah dan Dude Harlino.

Bermacam-macam faktor yang membuatkan seseorang lelaki berasa diri wanita itu menarik. Faktor rupa paras, intektual, atau kebendaan/material. Wujud juga lelaki yang menyukai seseorang wanita hanya kerana sifat keibuannya seperti cara wanita itu melayan kanak-kanak dengan penuh kasih sayang dan kehebatannya di dapur! Go Baby, Go! alamak, maaf sekali lagi kerana saya juga secara tiba-tiba(tgn di bahu mata pandang atas) berkata lirik secara gedik seperti Stacy di dalam lagunya Jahat.

Walau apapun, semua orang ada citarasa yang tersendiri apabila berkaitan dengan kualiti pasangan hidup masing-masing. Tiada satupun ciri-ciri wanita atau lelaki idaman yang salah. Jadi, tidak layak untuk manusia itu menilai manusia yang lain mengenai sifat-sifat pilihan pasangan hidup mereka. Namun begitu, mencintai kerana rupa, harta dan juga sifat keibuan masih dikategorikan sebagai cinta dunia, dan sesungguhnya dunia ini tiadalah kekal selama-lamanya. Paras yang lawa akan pudar ditelan usia, dan jika cinta bertapakkan rupa yang menawan, maka pudarlah cinta itu melewati usia tua. Kusangka kau betul betul jatuh cinta, tutt tutt sungguh.. ooppss sekali lagi I bernyanyi-nyanyi secara spontan lagu Stacy jugak bha yang bertajuk Pakai Buang, maaf ya.

Memilih pasangan hidup berdasarkan agamanya, merupakan satu langkah untuk menggapai redha Illahi. Oleh itu, fikir-fikirkanlah sama ada mahu bercinta dengan sebenar-benar cinta, atau bercinta sekadar tuntutan nafsu.

Walaupun sudah ditetapkan ciri dan standard wanita/lelaki pilihan, tetapi Allah S.W.T. jualah yang memberikan cinta itu. Tercampaknya cinta kepada seseorang pada pendapat saya, itu merupakan hadiah dan juga ujian daripada Allah S.W.T. Handle it with care. Kutahu kau menyintaikuu.., Kutahu kau merinduikuu oh kasih.., errkkk dengan tidak semena-mena daku bernasyid Kasih Kekasih by In-team. Soo sorry.

Sekian,

Wallahu aa'lam


I know my BM tak sedaappp. 

Assalamua'laikum

Konichiwa!

;)

Alhamdulillah Allah dah bukakan pintu hati dan pemikiran saya. You just can't have anything yet for yourself. Kongsilah. Yes, SHARE. By the way, as my Blog named(moto ke ape ke entahlah), Sharing is Caring. so, live the meaning!

Kawanku sayang, insyaAllah nanti kita jumpa. I want the whole story. I try not to judge. I just want to know the story or even stories. I want to know it all! InsyaAllah I am accepting him. Infact, I just accepted him. So, please tell me the whole thing.

You might not come across this post or even searching for it, but it is totally okay. Aku suruhlah hang cari nanti. Hahaha.

Moral of the post, buka hati dan minda kita.

Kita biasa cakap atau dengar orang marah, "Kau ingat kau bagus sangat?". Tapi pernah tak kita pesan btul-betul pada diri supaya jangan ingat diri itu bagus dan terbaik antara yang lain? Kata-kata hanyalah kata2, we have to think in depth and amalkan. "A word just a word 'till you mean what you say."--Send It On by Demi Lovato and adalah yg lain(jonas brother kot).

Preaching here and there, critisizes people even on the smallest issue and searching+digging+magnifying others faults/mistakes when he/she himself/herself is just in the same static 'place'. IMPROVE DEAR, IMPROVE! Improve our imaan.

-purut sakit dah sebab lapar yg disebabkan oleh berpuasa. hehe, tak apa, sikit je ni.

Akhir kata.....,

JANGAN INGAT DIRI ITU BAGUS SANGAT.

peace  yo!

Salam Ramadhan. And for your information, eja Ramadhan dalam BM ialah Ramadan. Lagi satu, jangan pernah dikau memulakan ayat penulisan akademik bahasa Inggeris dengan 'and'.

"Planlah waktu cuti ni".

Assalamua'laikum.

Have you seen the video? Video Couple Seminggu tu. I have.. :) Suka tak? SAYA SUKA! :)

I'm not supporting that kind of attitude, but I really like her tone and dia buat video tu macam hosting. Berbakat. Bagus. :) Malaslah nak cakap the negative sides of that video, since most of us have already the done the work. Some are doing it very well and some are just making the parody of that video. Saya tak setuju sangat dengan parodi-parodi tu. Kita suka ke bila orang ejek kita? Mesti tak, right?? Jadi.. just don't do something to people when you yourself hate to be treated that way. Okay? :)

Back to the topic(padahal tak start apapun lagi kat atas tu selain greeting je.hehe). Plan. Rancangan.

Alhamdulillah saya baru sahaja menyudahkan semester pertama saya dalam Ijazah Sarjana Muda yg saya sedang usahakan ini. So, I'm on my semester break right now. :)

Kawan saya pesan, buatlah rancangan time cuti ni. Dahlah, malas tulis banyak-banyak kat sini. Lets get down to business. :D

Senarai rancangan aktiviti di dalam waktu cuti semester ini.

1- Polish skil memasak.
2- Membaca.
3- Revise some pelajaran dalam semester 1.

(Hahaha 3 je. apalah awak ni. :)) )

That is all. Please pray for me. Doakan iman saya, doakan keputusan peperiksaan saya. Terima kasih. :) Syukran, arigato gozaimasu,nandri & danke.



Kepada yang mengambil intersesi atau semester pendek, selamat berjuang!

Peace and out! hihi.

Saya cuma buat karangan je.. Bukan opinion betul2.

In Malaysia, women’s participation in the workforce, though low, has increased from 44.7 per cent in 1995 to 47.3 per cent in 2004(Women’s participation in the workplace, 2005). The increasing of their participation in the workforce cannot be halted because, it actually in line with the growth of their population. It is been said that women can do anything that men can. This issue of  women involving into the workforce is actually continues to be debated. The impacts of this occurrence have its boons and banes. Participation of women in the workforce can affect family institution adversely, high infertility  and difficulty in the work organization.

Participation of women in the workforce can affect family institution adversely. In this era, people got so worked out for working 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. When women which are the backbone of a family are out to work six to eight hours per day, they will be exhausted and too tired to have the quality time with their family. It is not deniable that women involving in the labor force can improve their life standard, and many of them have achieved that standard that they dream for. However, take a look at their family and the majority of them have a fractured family bond. Their spouse and children’s need got neglected and the bond between husband and wife, a mother and the child are cracked.  Children need the most of parents attention and love through their childhood and as teenager. Lack of a mother’s love making them to search for alternatives to get their parents attention for some cares or to fill their emptiness.

The involvement of women as the workforce can lead them to high infertility. Their satisfactory to find the comfortable in life standards make them to postpone marriage and stay single past their fertility phase. Usually women who are really committed to their career even feel that they do not need men to support their life, thus, forgetting to get married and build a family. This will result in the declining of society population and will cause a country to lack of labor force in the future. Malaysian women are experiencing a decrease of fertility level every year and the fertility of women in the group age of fifteen and forty-nine year declined rapidly, and this can affect the population in our country in the future, translated from Utusan Online, Malaysia Women’s Fertility Rate Is Expected to Decline. Women can lift their position in the society when participating in the workforce, but by doing so they are going to sacrifice their own self-need to have their offspring. Maybe they will be admired for their position and wealth, but that will not guarantee a person happiness. Eventhough money is important, but a person will feel very lonely and miserable if he or she does not have someone to share and spend good time together.

Women participating in the workforce can cause difficulty in the work organization. Women workers have many difficulties to be paid attention. Usually in some occasion or in some condition that they are going through will cause them to have a low production and contribution to the organization which they work for. Some of the women have serious period cramp or morning sickness and that will halt their production for a while because they will have a leave for it. Maternity leave will affect an organization because for about two months the company will lost an employee that is good at that certain position and  this going to slower the company’s production when a new employee will need to be trained for that position. Women are diligent workers, but these temporary complications lead to unstable organization production from time to time.

            In a nutshell, women participation in the workforce is not highly supported. Participation of women in the workforce can affect family institution adversely, high infertility  and difficulty in the work organization. Women should not interfere with the working world when men can handle it.

Roomates

Assalamua'laikum.

(Tajuk je english, postnya in Malay. ihii..Campur2lah juga.)

Apa yg penting?? Kerjasama--Wonderpets. Iya, betullah kerjasama memang penting. Ada lagi perkara lain yg sama penting, and that is respect for each other. Sikap saling hormat-menghormati tidak kurang pentingnya dalam kalangan masyarakat masa kini.

Contoh simple lah ye saya beri, rakan sebilik/serumah.

1. Nak tidur
Dah tahu kawan baru sahaja mahu lelapkan mata, kita berilah dia suasana yg aman dalam bilik. Maksudnya, kita peka. Janganlah waktu itu jugalah baru kita nak start conversation dengan other roomates/cakap kat telefon/buka lagu rock/menyanyi(walaupun suara anda sedap,merdu, lunak).

2. Time kurang sihat
Kadang-kadang kawan jatuh sakit dan kurang sihat. Rawatlah dia kalau boleh. Contohnya tolong letakkan Cool Fever ke kat dahi, atau kalau nak jimat rendam tuala dengan air sejuk yang diambil daripada water cooler yang available kat kolej anda.
If anda seorang yang tak pandai nak jaga2 orang ni, cukuplah kita tak menambah masalah lagi kepada dia. For example, jangan buat bising dalam bilik/rumah. Biarkan kawan tu rehat, jangan tetiba pula nak buat a serious conversation dengan dia. Nak minta ajar atau nak tegur kesalahan ke apa, tunggu kawan sembuh dahulu.

3. Barang-barangan
It is important for us to respect other people belonging. Minta izinlah apabila hendak menggunakan barang kawan. Ianya sangat simple punya amalan, tapi amat bermakna. It means you still respect him or her.
Bila beg kawan block kita punya pintu almari, it does not hurt to lift and put it neatly at the right spot. Janganlah main sepak guna kaki tu je. It is very rude! Lebih2 lagi jika kita buat tu depan kawan kita. Itu memang tandanya kita tak hormat dia langsunglah.

Akhir kata, hormatilah orang lain jika mahu diri dihormati. Kita ini sesama manusia, jadi bersikaplah seperti manusia yang bertamadun dan berakhlak tinggi.



Cheers! :)

Factors of Discrimination and Its Effect

Assalamua'laikum. Watashi wa...(sambung ayat kat bawahh sekali)

Discrimination happens when you or someone else treat someone unfairly(A and NJ, n.d). There are a few kinds of discrimination in our society such as, job discrimination. Discrimination usually happens from racism, gender or religious reasons. It is such a ghastly attitude towards human being that have their own heart and feelings. Every each one of human beings wants to feel the acceptance and be loved. Treating people unfairly just because of their race, gender and religion will deny their rights. This deviant come from many causes and leads to terrible effects in the society. The causes of racial, sexual and religious discrimination are arrogant for their background, ambiguous about human rights, and close minded.

The society consist of various backgrounds either they are from the high caste family, female and male gender, or beliefs. Some people can be really arrogant because of their background and that drive them to discriminate someone who are not up to their level. As for example, the Malays mistreat the Indians because the Malays think that they are smarter and more fair than Indians. A person who thinks he is better than anyone else is annoying and what more to discriminate people based solely on his judgement. “Discrimination is a hellhound that gnaws on Negroes in every waking moment of their lives to remind them that the lie of their inferiority is accepted as truth in the society dominating them”, Martin Luther King, Jr.(BrainyQuote.com. n.d.). Having such a heart can make the discrimination crisis persistent in the society.

Being ambiguous about human rights in this decade also leads to the discrimination in the society. Some people needs to be clarified of certain things, so that they will not break the boundaries. It is stated in Article 14: Prohibition of discrimination-The enjoyment of the rights and freedoms set forth in the European Convention on Human Rights and the Human Rights Act shall be secured without discrimination on any ground such as sex, race, colour, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, association with a national minority, property, birth or other status,(retrieved from http://www.equalityhumanrights.com/human-rights/what-are-human-rights/the-human-rights-act/protection-from-discrimination/, n.d.). It was clearly stated that there shall not be any discrimination on any ground of race, sex and religion. Citizen who are not aware of this particular act will show flippancy and discriminate whoever they want without feeling guilty. Moreover, the lack of stringent measures in the society environment makes the discrimination spreads around the community. This vagueness causes the perpetrators to be bold when discriminating and even more entrenched in the indirect discrimination. As for example of an indirect discrimination, a company wants to give a job promotion, but the person who wants that promotion must be able to drink alcohol because he or she needs to entertain the customers at night clubs. Ali is a Muslim and therefore he cannot drink alcohol and that also means he cannot apply for the job promotion.

Another cause that contribute to discrimination is closed-minded individuals that can never accept anything else accept for their beliefs. There are vast group of people that keep their mind closed when they meet people that having a different belief as them. Muslims had a hard time when the September 11^th Attacks is overwhelming throughout the United States. Allegedly four Muslims terrorists launched an attack towards the North and South towers that caused both of the towers collapsed within two hours. After that statement was out, the majority of the Americans were discriminating the Muslims. They do not open any job vacancy for Muslims and banned them from anything that they can. The Americans who discriminate Muslims did not think critically. It is affirmative that Muslims have the same religion as the terrorists that allegedly launched the attack, but it does not mean that all Muslims are terrorists or have the same intention to terrorize the United States. The sex discrimination is usually experienced by the females. Women are always been considered as weak. Females discrimination are happening broadly in India. In India men are assumed as family protector and women as a liability to the parents. The parents in India are depending on their son to take care of them, so it is a privilege to have sons. On the other hand, parents in India rather do an abortion or feticide from having baby girl. This is because, when the time has come to marry off the daughter, parents need to borne the wedding and prepare the dowry. There, women opportunities to have education and job are limited.

Discrimination in race, sex and gender will definitely effects the harmony in the society negatively. The harmony and serenity of the society can be jeopardized when there is injustice in it. Discrimination will encourage disunity and from that factionalism will exist. Living in an environment that dispute one and another, making the society becomes less productive, as cooperation among the community will create and produce a better product for everyone. The reciprocal of underestimating and intimidating causing stress to everyone who involved. When there is no consensus among the society, the country will slowly fall apart and confronts turmoil.

In conclusion, indeed the discrimination is caused by arrogant for people background, ambiguous about human rights, and closed-minded. Discrimination should not be happening in a society. Individuals should avoid making vain judgements that can cause the negativity thoughts roaming around the mind. Keep the mind open and be positive towards people will prevent a person to be racist or discriminative in other perspective. Bear in mind that nobody is perfect and accepting each other differences and completing each other weaknesses is a win win situation and this will promotes the unity of the country.

...mengantuk

Maaf lah perenggan dan susunan tak elok. Tak pandai nak adjust.

The Boon and Bane of Social Networking Among Students

If my in text citation was done wrongly, please correct me. Thank you! :) Assalamua'laikum.

Nowadays the youth are in Information Technology(IT) phenomenon where everything is just at the tip of their fingers. Internet has become a integral for the communities. Besides searching for information, students are also occupied with social networking. The examples of social networking sites are Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Social networking have plenty of advantages as well as the disadvantages for students. The advantages of social networking among students are flexible time to discuss with friends, make friends with different background and gain fast information, while the disadvantages of it are lost focus, waste of time and receive false information.

Since the internet is 24 hours available, there is the flexibility of time where students can access it whenever they want. Sometimes students would prefer to start their work at late night and having all sorts of questions or formula that they do not know. By connecting to their social network, students can interact with friends and may have discussion about the problems. According to spotlight.mcfound.org, A small but impressive study of students at Lockhaven University in Pennsylvania found that those who used Twitter to continue class discussions and complete assignments were more engaged in their classwork than students who did not, (cited in clintlalonde.net, 2011).

            The next advantage of social networking is student can make new friends with people who has  different background. Academic learning can be more interesting if there are more point of view about it. A student can make new friends which are from other culture, religion, race and can ask their opinion for a certain subject such as a discussion for essay content-cultures. Here student can have a realistic information about the particular culture, religion and race. Most of the times, when people search for information through the internet they always take the unrealistic information because of no information filtering. Online materials are overflowing and therefore, it is hard for students to find the accurate answer for their question.

            Gaining fast information is also an advantage from social networking among students. Everything are fast widespread via Facebook and Twitter. Any news and latest information can be gain from that site as soon as a person look into it. Students sometimes does not have to search and do information filtering to have the information that they want. Students may click on a trusted person social network site to get the related facts. This is very convenience and avoid wasting much of the student time to search for academic materials.

            Despite all the advantages of social networking among students, there are a few of social networking disadvantages. The first flaw of it is looses focus from the real intention of study purpose. Students have set the mind to log in the Facebook and just discuss or asking friends about academic problems, but they usually will distray from it when seeing the feeds beside. There were a survey about students and Facebook. According to fellow student Sarah,18, most of her peers could multi-task well, but using sites like Facebook was a question of balance,(cited in Herald Sun, www.heraldsun.com).This proved that social networking can distract students because of their features or applications. Actually, social networking will get students addicted to it.

            Students interacting with other student in the social network, can be a waste of time. Communicating by online let the other person have the freedom to reply whenever he or she wants to. This leads to the procrastination of time when person A is waiting for a long period for person B to reply. Students waste most of their time in front of the computers, just waiting for a simple answer as ‘yes’ or ‘no’. This is frustrating and will also put the student in a stressful situation. Many things can be done from the time that has been wasted for waiting too long for a reply. Their homework may also delayed due to depending too much on friends instead of searching materials for themselves.

            Another disadvantage of social networking among students is prone to receive false information. People can post anything they want in Facebook and Twitter. The validity is not confirmed and even some of the irresponsible individual just create some random information from the thin air. Students who are immature will probably take the information without thinking further. The consequences of this problem make the students using the wrong information in their homeworks.

            In a nutshell, it can be concluded that social networking can bring a positive and negative impact among the students. It will be an advantage if the students use the social network wisely and not excessively. Students should aware the priority of their work and must not be distracted by the useless act such as following vain posts and leaving behind meaningless comment or reply. It could be a disadvantages if the students are social networking without a clear goal to achieve.

tolonglh btulkan apa2 je yg slah dlm ni.

Mahu saja saya katakan yang....
Mahu saja saya percepatkan semuanya.
Mahu saja... mahu saja........

But Allah knows best.

Allah mustaa'n.

Euphemism

Assalamua'laikum. O genki desu ka.

Euphemism is speaking with pleasant or vague words to take of harsh or taboo words. Many euphemisms exist to describe actions and places associated with bodily function. People throughout the world use euphemisms differently according to their culture.

The first thing that makes euphemism relevant in the society is to be polite with others. For example in Malay language, word ‘tandas’ is used instead of ‘jamban’ which both have the same meaning which is toilet. ‘Tandas’ is more suitable and more polite to use when speak with people, especially in a formal occasion or with the elderly. When using the word ‘jamban’, it is impolite and it actually shows that the user is not a very educated person and blunt in speech. This also applied to the English language. To speak courteously, ‘ladies’(women’s toilet) and ‘ gents’(men’s toilet) are used to replace the word ‘toilet’ as it sounds more decent.

The second relevance of euphemism is to prevent chaotic occasion. Just a simple turn of a word can make a big difference to the listener. As for instance, a Malay employer says ‘lambat’ to replace the word ‘bodoh’ when dealing with his employees about the employees’ work performance. Both words share the same meaning as stupid. He has to use ‘lambat’, that is a  more pleasant word to comment on the workers work to avoid offending the workers. If the boss use ‘bodoh’ it may offend the workers and they could plan something together to maltreat the boss. It then leads to more serious circumstances.

All in all,  in order to keep the society peaceful and well-bred, euphemism needs to be practiced. Words substitution as the euphemism is the best way to avoid offensive speech that can render bad consequences.

#7

Assalamua'laikum. Tadaima..

Alhamdulillah. Today we had two tests. ALS420 and Japanese. I was so afraid to sit for Nihon test because I did not do really well in the online quiz last time. Suit myself, because I didn't do my revision. Astaghfirullahal a'ziim.

It is not that I managed to answer all the questions excellently, but..hehe... InsyaAllah ada improvement. :)

So, the morale of the story is, we have to revise. Don't do your revision at the eleventh hour as if you have a photographic memory or that you can absorb everything that you just glance at. 'Procrastination is the thief of time'. It sure is.
By the way I have another test tomorrow, Grammar. Writing this post does not mean that I'm ignoring my test for tomorrow as I am writing this in English right? Thus, its like a practice isn't it? :) Plus, I'm not typing the post recklessly without the Grammar rules.

As usual, I'm experiencing my drowsy moment right now. Hehe, why am I constantly writing when I am about to sleep or having something undone.

Well, please pray for me. (In the academic writing you are never allowed to start a sentence with 'well' or anything that similar to it.)

Ja mata = Well then.(said informally when parting from friends or relatives), arigato gozaimashita for reading my post.

Take care!

#6

Assalamua'laikum.

I'm getting weaker and weaker each day.. (mulalah ni nak berderai ayaq mata..)

;(

----- And so, my sentences are getting shorter by each post.

Sejuknya! Gegegegege.. Menggeletar Man yang mencedok air perigi di tepi rumahnya itu. Meskipun setiap hari Man membasuh dirinya dengan air perigi, dia tetap saja tidak biasa dengan kesejukannya.

Fadhilah mengantuk!

#4

How should I tell her? Hmmmmm, in my hand I am still holding my Sony Xperia Mini Pro, daguku bertongkat. "Don't you know what it means when a guy and his family are coming to pay a visit to a certain woman's family? It's impossible that the visit means nothing and just an ordinary one.", sending message.
A minute later, she replies, " I don't know. I just think it's going to be a normal visit.". For God sake, how naive she is! "Here it is.., I am a religious man, so it is impossible for me to be straight forward to you. Ask my elder sister."



Such an innocent thing to do, describing  myself as a religious man. I was almost burst into a laugh, when typing it.

Haaa...(sighing) the girl who stole the heart, a naive girl indeed.

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Assalamua'laikum. Konbanwa. :)  'Menongkat dagu' dalam English apa? --Nasiblah last post tu tergantung. hehehe.

haih. tolonglah betulkan bahasa saya ini kalau ada nampak mana2 yg pelik.

#3

Assalamua'laikum. :)

 " Seronok tengok Fadhilah elok ceria.", a very good friend of mine once replied my SMS. Itulah kawan betul, kan?

Okay, so  today I want to write about my routine here,at UiTM Shah Alam.

7am, waking up in the morning. Gotta be fresh, gotta go downstairs. Gotta have my bowl, gotta have cereal. Seeing everything, the time is going. Tickin’ on and on, everybody’s rushing. Gotta get down to the bus stop. Gotta catch my bus, I see my friends. Kickin’ in the front seat. Sittin’ in the back seat. Gotta make my mind up. Which seat can I take?

Haha, that whole text up there is a song lyrics. Song : Friday, Singer Rebecca Black. Hihi, just playing around in this early morning. 

I usually wake up around 6 a.m. everyday. Actually I did set my alarm clock at 5 am++, but... hehehe. Ini semua sebab kelas2 bukan kat sebelah bilik saya. Oooppss..terkeluaq BM. :) I just speak English from the vocabs that I acknowledge. I'm trying to practice that. If I do not know how to have a conversation in English, I will just use my mother tongue language for that certain sentence or word.

Continue.. After I wash myself and perform Subuh prayer, I will take my breaksfast. I try not to miss my breakfast. :) 

huhuhu.. Sorry... I have to do something else now.. bye. See you later, InsyaAllah!

Peace out!